What Does 'Powerful Feminine' Look Like?

 
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"What does 'powerful feminine' look like?"

My coach asked me that 5 years ago.

Honestly, I was stumped.

I knew what a powerful masculine looked like and what a little girl looked like, but a powerful, grown-up feminine? I couldn’t see her.

This is my first draft of what powerful feminine looks like to me:

**Powerful Feminine Manifesto **

As powerfully feminine humans, we….

🔥We take the time to know what we want and ask for it, with full vulnerability, letting ourselves feel the tenderness in the asking.

🔥We are gracious and grateful in receiving love, attention, gifts, and opportunities. We aren’t tempted into entitlement.

🔥We embrace our periods of darkness, grief, and rage as we trust that each emotion has a reason and a season. It won’t be here forever, but it may teach us something - if we listen.

🔥We know the way men treat us is a reflection of how we value ourselves. We honor ourselves (and men) by saying “No” and refusing to tolerate all behavior that doesn’t feel good.

🔥We share love and support to people without care-taking and fixing. We know each person has their own wisdom.

🔥 We trust our appetite - for food, for sex, for connection… We don’t “tone it down” to be a good woman.

🔥We feel connected to nature - earth, animals, plants, seasons. We know when we hurt the earth, we hurt ourselves.

🔥We listen to our bodies first and foremost - our hearts, our gut, our pussy. We let ourselves be guided by intelligence deeper than our minds.

🔥 We trust our cycles of of growth and contraction, extroversion and introversion, light and darkness. We have reverence for the season we are in.

🔥We delight in the magnetism of our beauty and our sex. We are responsible for what we attract into our field.

🔥We name our truth even if it is subtle and we feel crazy for saying it. We know sometimes we feminine creatures can see below the surface and under the rug.

🔥We create exuberantly, letting words, colors, concepts, and ideas flow from our bodies out out into the world, gestating and birthing our whole lives.

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Equally important to knowing what is feminine power is knowing what it is NOT. To me, feminine power is not…

⚔️ Self-reliance - we know that deep down, we need each other, and we allow ourselves to be interdependent.

⚔️ Invincibility / “I can handle it” - one of our feminine gifts is our sensitivity. We don’t try to push past that. We let ourselves be fully impacted by life, knowing we are resilient and can recover.

⚔️ “Girls Run the World” / No-Need-For-Men - the feminine rises not to topple the masculine, but to come into unity with it. Man-bashing or trying to emasculate men are toxic mimics of power.

⚔️Entitlement / “Of course he should treat me like a queen.” - entitlement is an attempt to receive without vulnerability. Powerful feminine doesn’t get tempted to close her heart and act entitled or full of expectations.

P.S. By "feminine", I don't mean only women. I mean that feminine or yin energy inside of all of us.